如果對愛情無憧憬, 其實唔會覺得大遺憾, 樓主明顯未死心
無憧憬, 其實有與無係無所謂的, 有就有, 無就算。我們想要的很多, 但無人可以得到所有想要的。 塞翁失馬，焉知非福。其實係失去某d野之同時, 你其實係有得到某d野，只要你識這樣想,唔係話唔會有痛苦，但唔會覺得好大遺憾。
PETER: Jacks, have you ever thought this whole ‘True Love’ thing might be a conspiracy?
JACKS: A conspiracy?
PETER: Yeah, a capitalist conspiracy. A lie concocted by the Film, Publishing and Music industries. All pushing this thing, this concept that doesn’t even exist!
JACKS: True love doesn’t exist?
PETER: Well, think about it. Where is it besides songs, books and films? I mean who can honestly say ‘I will always love you’?
JACKS: Whitney Houston?
PETER: Yeah, when she’s high on crack.
The point is everyone’s miserable because they’re looking for this nonexistent thing, or else they’re miserable because they think they’ve settled for less.
《love and other disasters》
我好同意以上對白架, 現代人被愛情劇/戲/歌洗腦太多, 令人太在乎是否有真愛
樓主明顯未走出框框, 覺得自己settled for less
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睇開d,只有自己先會對自己最好
學懂愛自己
抱抱JM
嗰時就嚟結婚，有個老一輩嘅同事同我講，男人只要肯返屋企就得啦！當時唔係太明白，現在諗番起佢意思係大多數嘅男人都會去玩，只要唔好玩到上咗身，連屋企老婆仔女都唔顧就得啦！
雖然我嗰個冇出去玩，但大家結婚咁耐，都已經冇乜話題，我諗只要有個女仔可以令佢有新鮮感，唔排除佢會心郁郁囉！
而且香港女多男少，男嘅個樣過得去，有啲女仔話知你結咗婚，一樣黐埋去！
如果有拎錢返屋企,無好似大爺咁就無所謂 
都係嘅 
婚姻只不過係老來有伴亙相照顧既保障而已
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唉…而家就咁講，我估到真係既時候,未必睇得咁開吧
我冇小朋友，都有諗過，如果c6死先,我一個點算
睇日本電視劇有句好深刻: 結婚前張開雙眼望清眼前呢個男人, 婚後就閉起一隻眼睇呢個男人
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都幾無奈
好無奈 做女人好唔公平
我閉起眼，而佢就自己happy happy 
你都可以自己去HAPPY~
唉，佢仲周旋係第三者同我當中。
我唔願放棄，而佢心有離意但人又留低。
我，根本happy 唔到。
男人，點解要傷盡人心，要走就決絕d，拖拖拉拉，一啖砂糖一啖屎。
I always stand by this discourse, but I explained it as a temporary hormone, it faded according to age & time
我估唔到咁多jm 話唔相信愛情.
我自己都唔信, 但係在亡國話唔信, 啲人講到好似係我錯, 我俾人出軌所以我的價值觀扭曲咁.
我都唔知係我悲觀, 定係人地樂觀. 我35歲, 又冇聽身邊女性朋友個老公出軌. 我都唔知係未出軌定係我太悲觀.
我而家單身呀, 我又唔想生仔. 所以都唔想結婚. 情願拍下拖, 就算有啱都同居算數. 最緊要開心. 如果拍拖冇開心過單身就飛左佢.
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冇小朋友, 多出來的時間要識多啲朋友. 擴闊下生活圈子, 做下義工, 培養興趣. 用興趣交友, 我經驗識十幾個人之後會keep 到1,2個朋友. 儲下儲下就會儲到唔少朋友.
冇小朋友更加容易儲錢. 睇下你識唔識買股票, 唔識就供層樓, 到老逆按揭
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講真，有小朋友，老伴走左都七老八十，小朋友都生兒育女，仲邊有咁多時間陪自己，有自己興趣好緊要
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有d嘢隨遇而安，男人同女人都一樣會出軌，但我唔會assume 一定會
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